Second Time Around: Remarriage Etiquette
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Whether you’re celebrating your second, third, or eighth wedding, the important thing is that you’ve found another love of your life. Have some questions this time around? Here are some ideas and advice to help you walk down the aisle with taste and style.
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Deciding What Type of Wedding
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Today there are no rules when it comes to what type of ceremony and service you want to have if you’re getting re-married. A casual backyard party or a black-tie affair are both appropriate - do what feels right for you and your partner.
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The size of your wedding is entirely up to you, especially if you’re paying for it. Asking parents to pay for a large encore wedding - or to pay at all - may be too much to ask in some families.
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White is Still Alright
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Many remarrying brides decide to wear white or ivory wedding dresses.
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Brides might want to skip the veil the second time around. Instead, wear a tiara or flowers in your hair. If you really want to wear a veil, skip the blusher that goes over your face, and wear the veil in back.
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Grooms can wear a tuxedo or invest in a great suit that can be worn again.
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Wedding Party Attire
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If you decide to have bridesmaids, and they’re the same group as the last time, you don’t want to ask them to buy a new dress for your second wedding.
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Instead, ask second-time bridesmaids to wear a particular color dress.
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For groomsmen it’s easier – dark suits or tuxes always work.
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Family Matters
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It’s perfectly fine for a father to walk a bride down the aisle. If that feels funny, a bride should walk down the aisle by herself or with her partner on her arm.
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If you have children, feel free to include them in your wedding party (if that makes them feel comfortable). It can be a nice way to express your love and support of each other.
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Register? Absolutely!
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It’s totally fine to register for gifts the second time around, especially if there are things you never had during your first marriage that you’d like now.
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Try and satisfy all budgets with a healthy mix of high and low-end items, and plenty in-between.
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This is the perfect opportunity for you to upgrade any items you may already have, but wish to replace.
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Remember, just because you’re getting married again doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t celebrate your heart out. A new chapter and a new love should be honored and cherished. Your friends and family will be thrilled to join you in your happiness and toast your new life together.
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